Chapter 1: The Ethics of Writing About Fellow Writers

Writing negative pieces about other authors strikes me as unrefined and quite immature.

I can’t recall who penned it, but someone once wrote a positive article about me, noting that the various stories surrounding my life were false and that over a hundred articles had been published about me on Medium. Fortunately, I've only come across the favorable ones, as those individuals usually reach out to inform me.

Throughout my career, I've never authored an article targeting another writer, nor do I intend to. I find it unethical and lacking in integrity to suggest who should or shouldn’t be read.

What baffles me is how many individuals consume these disparaging articles and then come to my page to hurl insults and label me a liar, claiming that my assertions are unverifiable. One writer even stated that none of my books boast more than three stars. I have no idea where that misinformation originated, but it is simply false.

The first video delves into the recurring theme of writing the same stories and escaping writer tropes. It explores whether it’s acceptable to revisit the same narrative and how to navigate the expectations placed upon writers.

Further, I tend to shy away from the limelight. While I feel compelled to write, I seldom promote my work and do not contribute to other publications anymore. In the past, I did, but times have changed.

Then, there are those who argue with me about topics like apartheid or praise former President Trump, labeling me as a "libtard" and criticizing my views. The backlash is relentless.

I often wonder what leads so many writers to believe that penning negative pieces about others in our field is a commendable act. Sure, I’ve commented on various articles over the years. In fact, I used to be rewarded quite handsomely for my letters to the editor.

Section 1.1: Commentary vs. Critique

Yes, I used to engage frequently on Medium. Commenting is a part of being a reader, and negative feedback has always been permissible. No publication has ever featured an article about me simply because I expressed a dissenting opinion.

In my view, there are different types of writing: news articles, magazine features, and yes, even celebrity interviews. I’ve had the pleasure of interviewing notable figures, including Neil Gaiman.

It troubles me that many react emotionally to criticism. I rarely do. However, after three decades online, I’ve learned to block, ignore, and step away from negativity. Writers often battle jealousy.

Years ago in London, I encountered an aspiring writer who wanted me to join his group. When I declined, he asked for a story I had written. I sent him a prize-winning piece, only for him to criticize character names, plot points, and endings. I chose not to respond, as I believed that if a magazine publishes my work and compensates me for it, then his critique stemmed from nothing but spite.

Subsection 1.1.1: The Importance of Professionalism

I've occasionally told some individuals, particularly those who are new to writing, that they lack skill. I recognize now that this was a mistake. I should have simply moved on, which is what I do today.

Fortunately, the current CEO of Medium has significantly improved the quality of articles in my feed. While I sometimes skip over pieces, there is usually something valuable and well-crafted to engage with.

Chapter 2: The Nature of Accolades

I’ve never excelled at self-promotion. When I defend myself against unfounded claims, I’m often accused of boasting. The reality is that constant compliments about my looks or writing skills have lost their meaning over time.

For me, the focus has always been on survival—ensuring I can pay my rent and buy groceries. Regardless of where I’ve written, I often rise to the top, but that attention can quickly shift when I ruffle feathers.

In September, I plan to return to school to learn how to produce content for YouTube.

When I see writers boasting about their million reads or countless accolades, I can’t help but shake my head. Those metrics feel trivial to me now. My priorities lie in providing quality information, earning a living, and fulfilling my responsibilities to my daughter and those I encounter.

In 2021, I was recognized as one of the top 1000 writers for four consecutive months. I suspect the initial recognition was due to my content, while the later accolades were largely driven by earnings.

Do I frequently discuss my achievements? Have I shared stories of famous authors praising my talent or competitions I’ve won? The truth is, these are fleeting victories—today’s achievements can easily fade into the background. What truly matters is the essence of our lives: Did we meet our obligations? Were we helpful to others?

Substack has a guideline prohibiting writers from discussing their peers, and I believe Medium should adopt a similar policy, withdrawing articles that critique other writers.

I do feel concern when fellow authors malign me for having previously commented negatively about their work or for pointing out factual inaccuracies. Even when I provide credible sources to support my claims, I’m often dismissed as incorrect and told that legacy media cannot be trusted.

The world is indeed filled with a diverse array of individuals, isn't it?

Rant concluded.

As a writer, I have produced over 1200 articles, contributing to the ever-evolving landscape of online literature.